Oh my god, let me just start by saying I never had heartburn before I turned 21. Today I have it so bad I could crawl under a rock and die. I think it’s a mixture of bagel and stress. Anyone with a good remedy I’m trying to avoid all drugs but I’m taking some more tums in an hour.
Some days I still can’t believe that someone is going to let me walk out of the hospital/birth center with a baby. I mean for the most part I still think my family views me as being 17. This sums it up in a very twisted way, but it’s funny. From my favorite online comic strip xkcd.
Here I am 14 weeks pregnant, I can’t really tell a difference although I can’t wear almost any of my normal clothes or suck in my belly. I am still struggling with body image issues, i feel really fat and yea I try not to think about it but sometimes it gets me down.
For comparison here is me at 6 weeks.
I borrowed this format and some of the wording like the sections about epidural and breastfeeding from Holly at Shumate Shenanigans. Thanks Holly for your great inspiration and ideas!
When did we find out we were pregnant?
April 8th. We were both amazed to say the least. I have been off of birth control for nearly two years now and with D’s previous conception issues we really didn’t think it would just happen like this. We are so excited and so blessed!
What are we doing as far as medical care goes?
We are seeing a fantastic group of midwives at Metro Partners in Women’s health in Novi, MI. What is a midwife and why not see an OBGYN? Well a midwife is someone with medical training who deals with normal low risk pregnancy and by seeing a midwife over an obgyn I have lowered the chances I will die in childbirth. Mostly because I greatly lowered the chances I will have a c-section. If you would like more information on midwives or the Metro Partners in Women’s Health midwives.
How far along am I?
14 weeks today. Due December 17, 2008.
Are we going to find out the baby’s gender ahead of time?
Yes! I don’t really want to but D is all about finding out. Next time it’s a big surprise though. Be ready for the big news around August 1st.
Have we picked out any names?
Yes, But I’m not telling you or anyone for that matter.
Am I going to get an epidural?
No, no, no! The birthing center doesn’t even offer them and if they did I’d decline. Epidurals tend to cause more problems than they solve. They often slow down labor, increase the chances of medical interventions (i.e. forceps delivery and induction), and increase the risk of c-section. And despite the growing trend of moms electing to have c-sections they are not the safest way to deliver a baby. C-section doubles a mother’s mortality risk. They are emergency procedures and I hope to avoid an emergency at all costs. Pain medications also interfere with the establishment of a strong breastfeeding relationship. Plus if you have an epidural you’re stuck in the supine position which is the worst possible position for giving birth. I’d much rather be able to get up, walk around, and use more natural methods of pain control. Women were designed to give birth. I for one am looking forward to doing it “au natural.”
Am I going to breastfeed?
You bet! The list of reasons mother’s milk is best (for baby AND for mom) is a mile long (again, e-mail me for some FASCINATING reading on the subject) or visit ProMoM or kellymom!
The American Academy of Pediatrics says:
“Breastfeeding should be continued for at least the first year of life and beyond for as long as mutually desired by mother and child… Increased duration of breastfeeding confers significant health and developmental benefits for the child and the mother… There is no upper limit to the duration of breastfeeding and no evidence of psychologic or developmental harm from breastfeeding into the third year of life or longer.”
And the American Academy of Family Physicians says:
“Breastfeeding beyond the first year offers considerable benefits to both mother and child, and should continue as long as mutually desired.” And “If the child is younger than two years of age, the child is at increased risk of illness if weaned.”
(emphasis mine)
The World Health Organization recommends nursing continue to 2 years of age and beyond.
Am I taking care of myself?
You bet! I’m taking prenatal vitamins and an Omega-3 supplement. I’ve always been concerned about good nutrition. We love veggies, whole grains, fresh fruits, etc. during my pregnancy we are following the Bradley method so I am following Dr. Brewer’s diet.
Are we hoping for a boy or a girl?
We would like a girl but we are just blessed to be able to have a baby!
Are you seriously going to use cloth diapers?
You could bet your buttons we are. We have found a great diaper service that will be picking up the dirties and dropping off clean prefolds for us weekly. I mean with the diaper service it cost the same as disposable and honestly I have never changed a diaper as is. So it won’t be any harder or easier for me to use cloth over disposable. Not to mention that even with transportation and cleaning it is still more ecologically friendly to use cloth. Keep in mind that all disposable diapers that were ever in existence are still in existence in the exact same form that they were when your mommies dropped them in the bin.
Here is some great information about cloth diapering!
So I went to my first official midwife appointment today and it was great! Jess my midwife and I chatted about my family history and I asked her some questions about medications I can take. Then the best part happened, we listened to the heart beat via doppler. It was so great to hear my little baby doing so well! It took her a minute to find it and I held my breath to hear that little swoosh swoosh but it was there and it was strong. She says that I’m doing good and to keep exercising.
I have to admit I was feeling a little freaked out, I spend a good amount of time at night reading the mothering.com forums and I love it there. But another mother in my due date club left the other day turns out at her 11 week appointment they could find the heart beat so they had sent her down to ultrasound and the baby was no longer. However when we got to the part where we got to listen to the heart beat it was there and it was strong so all my nervousness dissipated. Overall it was a good appointment!
YAY! 12 weeks today. I am so excited this means the the chances of me miscarrying are now greatly reduced. I am feeling a lot lot more energy and my house is starting to get super clean again. I just couldn’t keep up with it while I was so tired. I don’t honestly think I have ever been that tired ever.
But now that is all behind me I am looking forward to starting to look pregnant and not just fat. I just bought my first maternity clothes this weekend and I love them! And I am going to start exercising at least every day for 30 min. That way I stay as fit as possible.
I jumped on the scale this morning and I was 159, which is down a pound from Friday. The week I found out I was pregnant I weighed 157 so I am still only up 2 pounds in 12 weeks! I am hoping to only gain 15-20 pounds during pregnancy considering I was/am overweight to begin with that is a good weight to gain.
So I had a very strangely vivid dream last night that we were having a boy. I would prefer a girl, although really a baby is a baby. The Chinese gender predictor predicts that we will have a girl. Just some food for thought.
So I am 10 weeks now and I am starting to feel a little less tired. I am one of the lucky ones where I didn’t have any pregnancy sickness, but I did get the flu last week. Below are some comparison pictures from week 6 to week 10. I have only gain 2lbs in the whole first 10 weeks so I think I’m doing good. My belly isn’t hard yet but it feels like my whole stomach has moved.
Week 6
Week 10
So yes I’m pregnant, which would explain a few things. When I took a break I had just found out and I was only like 4 weeks along so in order to figure out what I was going to do I needed to take a break.
Well now I am back and besides having a cold from hell I feel good, the picture above is from yesterdays visit to date the baby, our due date is 12.17.08 and I am 8 weeks along.
Both of us are totally excited about it, if you read some of my archives I wanted to be pregnant and D didn’t think it would happen until we put some serious money into infertility(like he once attempted with the x wife). We are both fully dedicated to having this baby in a natural way and setting no matter how much slack we take for it. And we are in love and we are having a baby. My life is going really good at the moment.
So what is the food plan now, are you concerned that you will loose all and just eat what you want to?
Yes in fact I’m nervous about that, so in an attempt to curb the appetite and make sure I don’t gain to much weight I will be continuing to use Calorie Count Plus to track the food I eat on most days. I am planning focusing my consumption on whole grains with lots of fiber, natural lean proteins, low fat dairy products and 8-10 servings of fruits and vegetables per day using 1800-2000 calories until I’m in my 5th month.
But you need to gain weight, how much weight do you want to gain?
Because I was overweight starting the pregnancy I would like to gain no more than 20lbs. I have broken this down to 3lbs during the first trimester putting me at 160 and 17 pounds throughout the rest of the pregnancy maxing me out at 177 by week 40.
I plan on continuing running/walking throughout the whole pregnancy as well as lifting weights through the whole thing. This should help with weight gain as well as easing the delivery.
This is me and my mom right before our first 5K that we ran on Wed night.
Me, My Mom and Pipper our friend from running class.
